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ok, my brother was so much in love with his gf, she said shes in love with him too, but out of nowhere she texts him saying she doesnt want to hurt him so shes leaving...broke his heart so badly, she finally tells him why and she said its b/c all this time she was in love with someone else and tried to forget him by useing my brother but it didnt work...im a girl and i dont even see why girls like her do that...my brother was so heartbroken....now he gave up looking for a girl...i dont blame him, he always gets heartbroken...but i dont think he should give up...i mean hes such a sweetheart, how could a girl break his heart?

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Posted at 07/16/2009 10:03 PM

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blksephiroth90 said at 07/17/2009 11:45 PM

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wow dats really effed up...1 girl i was in love wit 1 time dumped me like 4 days later after she told me she loved me n i ask her y n she told me she wanted to lirt wit other ppl..since den i jus been careful not to get too emotinally close to girls dat i find interest in

Critikal28 said at 07/17/2009 09:58 AM

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the love game ain't complicated and neither are girls, it is just what she said it was, she used him to get over her "true love" basically she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend broke it off wit her so she got wit your brother to help get over her ex boyfriend and then they started dating but now her ex boyfriend want her back and she wants him more and when she says "I don't want to hurt you" it basically means I'm feeling guilty for what I've done and I'm goin back to my ex. They usually like to say "Your too good for me" as well

Knob Jockie x said at 07/17/2009 05:08 AM

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Not all girls are the same. Unfortunately love is not easy and he won't be the first nor the last person to have his heart broken. Giving up on love because of one failed relationship IMO is stupid.

HYPN05IS said at 07/17/2009 01:37 AM

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Sux for him, it just happened 2 me alil over 3 months ago with my ex wife. I did everything for her, had a son 2gthr, but she didnt appreciate nething and thought that since i didnt have a job for 2 months that i wasnt a man lol... The economy sux and it effected me (i was in the automotive field)
She wasnt complaining when she was staying home all day every day when i WAS making good money and we had our own place...
So, life is just something you learn from. I've learned ALOT from the relationship/marriage i was in. How to see people try and bullshit me, who is real and who is fake, ive learned not 2 depend on what people say what they will do, but rather see what they will do.
Right now im in the same boat as "fuck women" right now. I do love them, but they, right now in time, wont benefit me or my son. And my boy is all im worried about.

CS Hasuki said at 07/17/2009 01:44 AM

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Sorry dude, she sounds like a F*ckin B*tch! Mabye she did not hear of the global downturn!
Marriage is different though, already taken the plunge.
Just being with someone I am a firn believer in keeping your cards close to your chest.

HYPN05IS said at 07/17/2009 01:49 AM

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Unappreciative, hypocritical, moody, bitchy, manipulative = symptoms of a mexican lol. Ya dude she was a bitch. I gave her everything in my power 2 make our family happy. We did anything and everything we wanted 2, and as soon as times got tough, she up and left. and that wasnt the 1st time. We dated in 06 and she left me then for nothingness.... I should have learned the 1st time, but im greatful i didnt learn, b/c i have my son out of everything and i would never take him back.
Women are harsh, i see women look at me all the time, and 2 me, i just think "whatever." If they dont come 2 ME, they aren't going 2 talk 2 me. I dont approach women any more. I honestly never have had 2 either. And now, i dont even give most women the time of day.... simple conversation is awesome, but anything more im like whatever haha
Imma stop talking, this is loooooooooooong lol

Phorexia said at 07/17/2009 01:31 AM

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Because telling the truth can be too hard at times.

MaKaVeLiBr4NdeD said at 07/16/2009 11:51 PM

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ouch!
I agree with JOK3R xl

CS Hasuki said at 07/17/2009 12:56 AM

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Treat them mean to keep them keen. Agree with Joker. works both ways though.

Best way to do it because everyone has baggage.

YS Creek Legend said at 07/16/2009 10:59 PM

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the very essence of who he is will be the demise of what he wants. sorry to say but if he is such the sweetheart u say he is, women will take advantage of that & run all over him. sad thing is he can't change who he is & he SHOULDN'T change who he is. he will have to find a "woman" who can appreciate his sincerity and not a "girl" whom won't grow to appreciate such a man until she is in her mid 30s or 40s desperately trying to find a good man to settle down with.

Rudedog3 said at 07/16/2009 10:56 PM

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no he should not give up but it will take some time for him to get over her and let me tell you when he does he is going to know that she just was not the one and he is better off.

P.S.
and tell him he is not alone it happens to all good guys out there i know

SergiOhh said at 07/16/2009 10:23 PM

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Cause girls like being treated like crap sometimes lol. The better a guy treats him the worse he'll he treated. I'm not saying this happens all the time but it does happen.

SergiOhh said at 07/16/2009 10:24 PM

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I meant the better the a guy treats a girl by the way ;x

SergiOhh said at 07/16/2009 10:25 PM

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omfg I can't type for shit right now.

T R i N i G O D said at 07/16/2009 11:55 PM

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lol.i agree.girls like being treated like crap sometimes .well most girl.

PK FuzzyPickles said at 07/16/2009 10:18 PM

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girls only want guys who don't need them...chances are, when your brother showed emotion to this girl, her subconscious was turned off by it....idk why it is the way is, but i've experienced it.. lol

95% of girls say they want a guy who cares and who wants to be there for them....but their actions contradict....like i said, MOST girls

REJ3CTz said at 07/16/2009 11:46 PM

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i think that tru 4rl, once u show a gurl that u love her n care 4 her she will think she can do whatever she wants cuz u will always go back, 1 reason y i dnt show gurls that emotional side, they kno me as a guy that always b'n sarcastic and neva serious bout anything, but thats how its gotta b

PK FuzzyPickles said at 07/16/2009 11:51 PM

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EXACTLY...you can't show women that side of you until a certain point....because then they will take advantage of you and make u do whatever they want...

i say...until you're about 24 or 25...have fun...do whatever you want...screw whoever you want until you're ready to settle down...then again that's just me...im an idiot...lol...if you're saving yourself....then hell just wait it out...it's not that hard...still save yourself and have fun....but just dont have sex...shit idk. lol

REJ3CTz said at 07/16/2009 11:56 PM

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i say save the luvy dovy shit till u get old, yung love dosent lead 2 nuthin but a broken heart, 99% of the time, save love 4 a time when u can kno wut love really is

PK FuzzyPickles said at 07/17/2009 12:01 AM

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mmmmmhm...at this point...i agree because this kid has more intelligent things to say than me...lol. i'm a smart kid....but talk to me when i'm in another state. lol good luck, joker

REJ3CTz said at 07/17/2009 12:12 AM

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lol but all jokes aside, we will never kno what goes inside a females head, n we probly will neva kno, but gud luck 2 all the fellas out therr thats tryna understand that!!! lmao