I wouldn't say it's really a motivator, but habit/routine is good for whatever in life.

As for situation, you need to get out and there and meet new people, as blunt as that sounds. Easier said than done, but yeah. That didn't come out as right as I had wanted it to, but I hope you get what I'm trying to put across. =)

warhawkBL187 said at 04/15/2009 02:50 PM

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cheer up pup! you don't need friends..well you do but if being yourself means being alone then so be it. The Kiss guy has a lot of balls staying true to himself and not change for people.

i say to first find out who you are and stick to it..then only find people that accept you for who you are. Second be comfortable with yourself and i think you won't mind being alone with yourself =0P

NatashaBABYYY said at 04/15/2009 02:43 PM

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You're not alone

I'm currently in that position. I only really see my boyfriend and all my other 'friends' are from here online.

I've tried to make plans with my real friend but they haven't grown up from the teenage years yet so i stopped trying to make an effort

It sucks but i know slowly things with change again

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Zamees said at 04/15/2009 02:25 PM

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what about mx girl 013???

dictatrix said at 04/15/2009 02:49 PM

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I haven't seen or talked to her in months, it seems.

Zamees said at 04/15/2009 02:50 PM

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i have the cutest video of you two somewhere around..

Y2Kevin said at 04/15/2009 03:23 PM

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curious...

dictatrix said at 04/15/2009 11:43 PM

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whaaat...a video?

o_o...gimmie see

TK Liquidxxx said at 04/15/2009 01:48 PM

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i know how you feel i dont have much friends anymore..just mainly my fam (Fiance, 5yr old daughter and 2 month old son) and bri and adrian-na(my gay best friend) i just play games...and sit on here lol i'm a loser...but hey i'm a momma now i guess i need to be?? idk.. dont mind me

dictatrix said at 04/15/2009 01:53 PM

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I tried to go the mama route...at least..in pet form..I got a dog..to try and gain attention from and he gives it, but it's not enough.

XV GODS GIFT XV said at 04/15/2009 01:43 PM

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well ive been down and out before. a while back i tried to take my own life. so what got me through it was my family. so u need to talk your problems out with someone. mom, dad, bro, sis or even your boyfriend. what ever u do dont keep it built inside. i hope you feel better soon:)

dictatrix said at 04/15/2009 01:48 PM

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Thanks...I probably should speak to my family more..it's been a while since I've seen or spoken to any of them.

Maybach Matt said at 04/15/2009 01:33 PM

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Hobbies? I'm sure there is something out there you would like to learn about. Try starting there. I don't know.

dictatrix said at 04/15/2009 01:43 PM

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Unfortunately..I've got one of those personalities where I like to start projects but lose motivation to finish them...not sure how to really fix that either.

Maybach Matt said at 04/15/2009 01:59 PM

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I can't give you much advice, since I don't know you personally. Try to base stuff on your everyday life. For an example, I set up a lot of goals for the summer. I want to learn how to use photoshop (web design), DJ, start up my music blog again, and gain a couple of pounds by working out. This works out for me because I listen to music literally every minute I'm awake, and I'm in college for electronics engineering, which can help me to learn how to DJ/produce tracks easier. Sooner or later, you'll run into people with the same interests as you and become good friends. Just find something that is kind of related to the career path you want, or are currently in to keep you interested. I don't know if this helps lol.