what in the world??? i can't believe i missed this topic! jeez, um, well although i completely agree with you in regards to this being about gaming and not dating. the truth is that people make connections whether through simple interaction or because they're seeking it. i say to each his own. when i ran into rigid we became really good friends. he took a trip to LA, we hit it off and then our relationship took off. non of this "hey show us your tits" thing that goes on now a days. LOL